Stephan Jaksch

My Big Fat Greek Family

Picture of Santorini Island

When I tell my friends and acquaintances that I am Greek, their first comment inevitably is “So your family is kind of like that family in My Big Fat Greek Wedding?” to which I respond “Somewhat.” Having watched that movie numerous times and grown up in a Greek household and culture, I can definitely attest to the accuracy of some of it and even some of the stereotypes it portrays. My Greek family is massive, always boisterous, and there is constantly food involved whenever we are together, but I do not have six brothers and cousins named Nick, my family does not roast whole lambs in the front yard, nor is my house shaped like the Parthenon with a Greek flag painted on the garage. My family does not use Windex as an all-purpose ailment for cuts, pains, and diseases, but instead uses rubbing alcohol for any signs of sickness. This film, however, displays the core of the Greek household, which revolves around traditions and customs that are passed down from previous ancestors and elders. Many of these originate from the Greek Orthodox religion while others are superstitions and general beliefs.

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